2:30 Female Attraction vs Male Attraction
3:50 What is confidence?
5:00 Alpha Leaders
7:10 Movies and TV Shows AREN’T REAL
9:45 You NEED to understand this!! BOTH Guys AND Girls
10:25 Biological Self vs Logical Self
13:45 Accept yourself!
15:20 Overcome your fear
17:30 It’s not a big deal
18:45 How to start
24:00 Take the process seriously, but also enjoy it
25:00 Talk about what YOU want to talk about
29:20 Practice conversations
30:35 AVOID Dinner dates!
31:10 Talk to everyone
34:30 Show your authentic self
37:35 Everything is a SKILL and is LEARNABLE
39:30 Socializing is FUN!
An interesting talk with my friend Nick. The point that we wanted to convey is to be authentic with yourself when socializing with not just girls but anyone. It is very easy to fall into the trap of false expectations via social media, friends, family etc but when it really comes down to it, if it doesn’t resonate with you, everyone will feel it. Step outside of other peoples’ opinions and free yourself. You also need to understand your mind and what its thoughts are by default. Attraction is NOT a choice, just like how we are drawn toward fatty foods, sleeping in, impulsive behavior and avoidance of pain. However the beauty of being a human is stepping in despite these impulses and controlling your mind, and making choices that are authentic to you.
It is your DUTY to express yourself fully and show that side of you to the world. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below, happy Friday!